1.) She leans towards you: As she becomes more interested in you, getting closer and leaning in will happen naturally for her. If she distances herself from you or leans back from the table, that’s not a good sign. Read her body language during your date and pay attention to if….
2.) She touches you: If she gives your shoulder or arm a touch while laughing or talking, she is interested in you! If she wasn’t feeling chemistry, she wouldn’t touch you.
3.) Lots of laughing: Laughing and smiling is a way to show she is enjoying her date. Is she smiling while you talk and laughing at what you say? That’s a good sign and she thinks positively of the date.
4.) She follows up after the date: If she really enjoyed the date, she will send you a text or email. Why else would she take the time to tell you she enjoyed herself if she wasn’t interested in another date? Even if she doesn’t text after the date, you should follow up the next day (calling is best!) and tell her how much you enjoyed the date. If you’re interested in a second date, don’t play games and waste any time setting it up.
5.) She suggests a future place: If during conversation she says something like, “I’ve heard great things about this new restaurant, _____!” That’s the best sign! She is telling you she wants a 2nd date. The rest is easy for you, you just have to ask her when she’s free.
If she doesn’t show these signs during your date, don’t fret. Ask her if she enjoyed herself as the date is winding down and follow up with her the next day. She may not know if she’s interested in a second date or not (women take time to process things), but maintain communication until you get a better read from her. Shooting her a text or email is fine while trying to figure things out, but don’t forget to be a gentleman and call her occasionally!