People must use the positive skills of dating every day in every way, he advises. “Don’t alter whatever got you to the altar. That’s when the relationship begins to falter.” says Wilson. “When people date, they are alive, involved and focused on the other person. They present themselves in the best possible light. Unfortunately, too many couples forget to use these same principles when they are in a long-term relationship.”
He quotes It’s Just Lunch in his book, “Dating for singles is at a lull. According to a survey by eHarmoney’s founder Neil Clark Warren, half of all singles haven’t had a date in over two years. Also, a recent survey of over 5,000 singles by It’s Just Lunch indicates that nearly 35% of the respondents spend no time whatsoever looking for dates.”
“Dating For Life and it’s four keys will help simplify relationships for now and for all time,” he said. The Four Keys he promotes addresses universal truths regarding dating, relationships and romance.
- Purse agreed-upon interests. Manage the event planning so that you and your date will have a nice time together.
- Set no expectations. Manage your mind and minimize any stress or phobias you may have about dating.
- Interconnect to learn and grow. You share time with your date.
- Continually express gratitude. If you don’t express gratitude, your date won’t know you feel it.
Wilson’s book also includes advice on simple and cheap non-traditional first date ideas. “This is the kind of book every woman wishes her date had read before they met,” Wilson states. “This book is not about hustling dates, pick-up strategies or role-playing techniques to put to use in the bars. It is a book that can help build strong dating relationships.”
We recommend checking out his book! For more information, visit his website.